Mailbag: Toileting & body care
Toileting struggles, periods, and body care—these are some of the trickiest internal demands our kids face. When a child refuses to wear a seatbelt, smears poop, or struggles with managing their period, how do we support them in a way that respects their nervous system while still meeting real needs?
In this episode, I break down:
• What internal demands are and why they can be so distressing for neurodivergent kids
• How burnout impacts basic needs like sleep, eating, and toileting
• Why forcing solutions backfires—and how to approach these struggles through support, not control
• Creative, low-demand ways to navigate seatbelt struggles, poop smearing, and period care
• How parents can reduce their own stress while supporting kids who struggle with bodily functions
This episode is for every parent who’s felt like, “I can’t drop this demand, but I also can’t keep fighting this battle.”
Additional Resources:
- Low Demand Parenting book: a love letter to exhausted, overwhelmed parents everywhere. Get the first chapter free!
- Why is everything with my kid so hard?: Take the quiz to find your first step forward!
- Low Demand Parenting Blog: a treasure trove of low demand wisdom
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