Untigering and Low Demand Parenting
In a lovely and inspiring conversation on The Low Demand Parenting Podcast, Amanda Diekman sits down with Iris Chen, founder of Untigering, to discuss her journey from authoritarian parenting to a radically respectful and connected approach. Together, they explore:
- Detoxing from authoritarian and fear-based parenting
- Breaking free from the "good girl" and "good mom" identities
- Letting go of obedience as a measure of success
- Building meaningful relationships across generational and cultural divides
- Embracing radical acceptance in parenting and beyond
Iris shares her personal story, the challenges of parenting in countercultural ways, and the importance of living your values to inspire change. Whether you're navigating parenting, breaking cycles, or creating your own family culture, this episode will leave you inspired to step into radical acceptance and connection.
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Main Topics Discussed:
- Detoxing from fear-based, authoritarian parenting paradigms
- Shifting from controlling outcomes to embracing connection and safety
- The journey of healing childhood wounds to parent differently
- Addressing cultural and generational challenges in parenting transitions
- Practical ways to hold boundaries with respect and nuance
- How to embody radical acceptance in relationships
Resources Mentioned:
- Iris Chen’s book: Untigering: Peaceful Parenting for the Deconstructing Tiger Parent
- Iris Chen’s website: Untigering
- Follow Iris on social media:
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- Low Demand Reset (Free Gift): www.amandadiekman.com/reset
- Low Demand Parenting book: a love letter to exhausted, overwhelmed parents everywhere. Get the first chapter free!
- Why is everything with my kid so hard?: Take the quiz to find your first step forward!
- Low Demand Parenting Blog: a treasure trove of low demand wisdom
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